We're married... now what?

It's 4:25AM and I know I still havent written about wedding day and right now isnt the right time to either. But I will get around to it!

It's so odd to think we're married. I always describe it as foreplay, you spend all that time trying to work your way up to a climax and when you do, what happens next? You fall asleep. I always felt like marriage was that climax, after that... really what is there left to look forward to? I dont think its really hit us just yet that we're actually, legally, married. We dont live together (I know, shocking but that's a whole different entry on its own) and I havent filed the paper work to change my last name yet (that list to get through is awfully long), and I know I should soon. One of my fellow bloggers mentioned she hasnt finished changing her last name on everything just yet, so what happens if only half of your stuff is changed? Is there some sort of penalty for that somewhere? Having everything joined is so odd. I mean, when we were a couple of course things were joined but now that we're married, it just feels... different. Like we really have to consult each other before making some "huge" decision. Its just weird.

And now that we're married, what exactly do we do next?

I had the perfect example for this question while I was pooping (TMI? Sorry, but I'm a blunt person and just so you know now... most of my best blogs come during the time I'm either pooping or taking a shower. No lies)! And now that its been a few hours the most epic question I've had since being married has slipped away from me. Darn. Or maybe I'm just sleepy, after all, it is 4:30AM.

Maybe I should head to bed and try this again in the morning. Yeah, sounds good. He's actually sleeping in my dad's room right now, its just odd. That too is a totally different entry on its own!


Anonymous January 5, 2010 at 6:32 AM  

hi cuz! happy new year and congratulations! :)


foolishxlady A blog about my experience as a military girlfriend. My boyfriend of 5 1/2 years recently decided to join the United States Air Force. I have a more private journal about this (since I dont want to violate OPSEC) here.

This was originally suppose to be a blog about my experience as a military girlfriend & fiancée. But two weeks before my finance's BMT graduation, he was discharged for medical reasons. So, yeah, that sucks! But he still has the option to re-enlist after two years. They want to make sure he's fully recovered before coming back.

This blog, however will still be where I write about being a newlywed. We got married on December 28th, 2009 in Las Vegas, NV!

With that said, we're not married and since the military thing didnt work out, we're still on a struggle as to what we're going to do from here on out. So if you're interested in hearing about peoples struggles, you've came to the right place!