Is it just me or are men born without the ability to be unlazy? Maybe saying he's lazy is a bit harsh. Okay, well here. How about this.

Normally, I'm the one who has to set out dates on when we're going to pay the bills. Thankfully, all of our bills are due around the same time. Come the day before you have to pay the bills, you usually come up with some sort of battle plan. How much you're going to pay between all the bills, what the minimum payments are, list the places you go (if you pay at a store) so you dont miss anything. Now, I can do this myself even if the bills arent sent to my house (which they arent), thank goodness for online banking. But rather than having to log into every single account, wouldnt it just be easier for the husband to pull out the bills (which are probably in arms reach of him as I type) and kindly tell me the due dates along with the minimum payment? Obviously, I'm not going to ask him for this information considering he's at home playing video games right now. Pffft.

Sometimes I cant help but wonder if there are any men out there that successfully handle their own bills completely on their own without a woman's help.

Let me scroll through my mental list of men I know...


Okay maybe that was a bit harsh too, I'm sure at least a few guys I know do handle their own bills on their complete own, but its just so hard for me to imagine that to be true! I'm thinking I should start sending the bill statements to my house, that way I can be within an arm's reach of the bills and none of them will get lost in who-knows-where.

Oh the every monthly struggles of bills and a husband. As if bills alone werent enough!



foolishxlady A blog about my experience as a military girlfriend. My boyfriend of 5 1/2 years recently decided to join the United States Air Force. I have a more private journal about this (since I dont want to violate OPSEC) here.

This was originally suppose to be a blog about my experience as a military girlfriend & fiancée. But two weeks before my finance's BMT graduation, he was discharged for medical reasons. So, yeah, that sucks! But he still has the option to re-enlist after two years. They want to make sure he's fully recovered before coming back.

This blog, however will still be where I write about being a newlywed. We got married on December 28th, 2009 in Las Vegas, NV!

With that said, we're not married and since the military thing didnt work out, we're still on a struggle as to what we're going to do from here on out. So if you're interested in hearing about peoples struggles, you've came to the right place!